When you hook up with someone online.. when is the good time to meet that person.
should you try to meet up a soon as possible....or should you wait.. chat online, talk over the phone and then meet up..
mind you the second option takes anywhere from 2-3 weeks to more than a month.
I was talking to a guy.. who had contacted me on a matrimonial site..

we got on pretty well and had all decided to meet sometime in the next month.. he was in a different city and was due to visit mine in August..
we made big plans what we would do when we would meet, etc etc... and used to talk for long almost 1-2 hours every alternate day....
and just when i was hoping that this should work out.. he disppears for a while.. and then mails in to tell me that he is interested in someone else..

so in this case the meeting never happened.....


On the other hand.. there was this other guy who also contacted me on the matrimonial site..
after exchanging mails for 3 days..we found out that we worked in the same area.. so he dedided that we should meet up for lunch.. well we met up.. but now knowing each other for very long.. we were short of conversation topics...

well as expected.. there was nothing... happening after this meet...

so i come back to my question.. did i meet the second guy too early... i mean in a way.. it was good...in a sense of done n over with it...
but then in the first case.. it was detrimental....
probably if we met early...  we would have got on well.. and probably things would be different

anyways.. both out of the question now..

lets see who is the next specimen in this great groom search...